2016 was the year we sold our first “family” home.
It was the house my husband and I brought our two children to after leaving the hospital. It was where we struggled financially to make ends meet after I decided to become a stay-at-home mom. It was also where I studied the Bible with a number of women, had house church with fellow disciples and prayed over countless situations.
But it was time for a change, preferably one that was a little bigger than the 2-bedroom, 1 bath, 800-square-foot row house our family had outgrown.
Like most life situations, this change did not come easy and was a long time coming.
After living in that home for nearly 8 years, we put our house on the market in August of 2016.
Though we got an offer the first week, we actually didn’t sell the house until the following year in June.
Because of the timing of the sell, we had to move into a hotel for a week as we waited to close on a house that we put an offer on. We put an offer on a house, but it appeared the seller was having second thoughts.
This is the part of the story where God’s sovereignty really shines.
That week of “homelessness” (I use that term lightly) turned into two weeks.
During this time, I started praying fervently. I told God about my hesitation in buying that particular house because it needed a lot of work. I let Him know that I didn’t feel right about it. Our goal was to move to a safer, more family-friendly neighborhood, I said, not to find ourselves in a situation that would frustrate us and lead to mounting debt in trying to modernize this fixer upper.
Finally, I asked and petitioned God to make it clear. Make it clear he did.
A day after that prayer, we got a call from our realtor saying the seller was withdrawing the contract because they found a better buyer.
God answers prayers, y’all!!
The story doesn’t end there, however.
We proceeded to move from that hotel to another hotel. From one Airbnb to another Airbnb, and finally to a friend’s house and rental by the end of summer. We moved 9 times the summer of 2016!
We lived out of two suitcases during that entire time. We were living the Minimalist life!
Ironically, my kids were unfazed by all the moving. Quite frankly, if it were not for having to move so often, it was actually quite liberating not having a mortgage or utility bills.
I learned some things about myself during that time that has proved invaluable.
- I need a lot less “stuff” than I have. (This isn’t the first time I’ve lived with next to nothing in my possession, so this wasn’t especially new.)
- God wants to renew your faith during times of wilderness (and bewilderment). When you’re not sure what’s happening, it’s a great time to simply be still.
As we were waiting for someone to buy our home, and as we looked to buy a new one ourselves, so many scenarios were playing through my mind. Doubt. Fear. Even a little bitterness.
Thankfully, I did a deep Bible study leading up to the Summer of 2016 that reminded me of God’s sovereignty during that time.
I studied the early days of the Israelites and their pilgrimage to the Promised Land, I see a God who is gracious and just, devoted and faithful — despite our lack of faith and obedience.
He desires dependence, trust and faith in Him — not faith in our ability to please Him.
Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” NIV
Despite the uncertainty, I recalled times past.
God has never failed me. And I’m sure if you look back on your life, He has never failed you either.
As for me, I only needed to trust in Him and his divine purpose for my life, my family’s life.
As I surrendered, gradually at first, I began to rest in God’s holiness and grew confident in the direction he was ushering us in. I knew he wouldn’t leave us without a place to land.
I also knew that it was no coincidence that the offer on the original house we offered to purchase fell through!
We eventually did find our ideal home at the price point we could afford.
Do I need to say it again? God answers prayers, y’all!!
If you’re struggling in your faith, just remember what God has already brought you through. Live and walk in righteousness and obedience to Him, and he will give you rest.
“Abraham believed the Lord, and he credited it to him as righteousness.” Genesis 15:6 NIV